Planning a wedding is a great achievement especially when your guests come up to you and tell you how much fun they had and what an amazing day it was. How do you do it? If you follow The Wedding Genie philosophy you do it your way and you choose activities and personal details that your friends and family can take part in and will understand.
There will be elements of your personality that really make your wedding stand out above others that your guests have been too.
I started this blog post intending to write about a fabulous new supplier I have just discovered, but my thoughts started to take on a path of their own. I got to thinking about how do you practically make your wedding scream that it is all about YOU!
Here are my ideas on how to put your personal stamp on your perfect day – Your Branding if you like!
What Do You Really Want?
The first thing is to just take some quiet time and sit and think about how you imagine your perfect wedding day to be. Close your eyes and visualise what it looks like, what it feels like, even how it smells. Yes use all your senses and then write down what you thought of. It doesn’t have to be detailed notes just ideas and feelings. You will be surprised at what you come up with. Irrespective of the venue you choose there will be a theme or style or feel that comes out of your brain storming.
Your personality
What kind of person are you? Do you love quiet gatherings with fabulous food and great company? Are you a party animal who is the life and soul of a night out? Are you artistic with a love for eco friendly things. Whatever you are the best weddings reflect YOU BOTH! One of my lovely brides I am working with now was deciding whether to have favours or not. She has come up with a brilliant idea that suits the situation she is in, reflects her new husband to be’s job and completely involves her family who are extremely important to her. I can’t tell you what it is but it will be perfect and her guests will be very moved by this small detail. They won’t remember how much she spent on wine and food but they will remember this thought that was on the table when they sat down.

What time of year is your most favourite?
Do you love winter and the way you can dress up for the weather, real fires, smells of the winter, warming drinks and food with candle light?Are you a summer bird who loves the outdoors, the heat and anything bright? How about a time that means something to you? The time of year you first met maybe. Your first holiday, when or where you were proposed to.

What are your favourite colours and interests?
This maybe dictated by the time of year you choose to get married but anything goes now and as long as you are careful you can have pretty much anything you like. For instance if you love the winter but also lean towards bright colours you can choose to use bright splashes of colour against a black and white background or autumnal colours with splashes of bright colours to lift the theme. If colours just aren’t your thing then how about a fabulous classic look, creams, and greens. Lush foliage with soft shades of cream gives a classy sophisticated feel to the day.
For a theme for the wedding why not try and involve your hobbies or interests. If you are love films why not have that running through your day. Name your tables after favourite films or film stars. Have a film clipboard table plan. If food is your hobby do what one of my lovely couples from last year did. They had their favourite food for starters which was Antipasti. It gave everyone something fab to eat and soak up the reception drinks and at the same time mingle and chat. Their main course was a carvery. One person on each table was nominated the carver. The catering company gave them chefs hats and jackets and hey presto! Everyone loved it and it was so Anna and Mark

Where Would You Like to Be Married?
If your absolute desire is to marry in a Tipi Tent in the middle of a field then why not do just that? I know I am a wedding planner and should know better that you have to marry legally in a building with walls and foundations and the relevant licence. Well how about getting married quietly in your local registry office and having a celebrant marry you “again” in your Tipi? Your ceremony can be exactly what you want it to be, involve as many friends and family as you like, say and do what suits your personalities. If you think outside of the box you can do whatever you like. This way you will be legally married and have the ceremony your really yearn for. What’s more you get to do it twice!
Alternatively choose between a church and civil wedding ceremony. I think you have to decide what would be typical for you and your partners idea of a perfect ceremony. If the idea of a civil ceremony puts you off because they are not that personal dispel that thought immediately. I got married this way and we took the time to make up wedding vows that really meant something to us. I said a lovely poem to my husband that I was so moved by from a film would you believe, check it out here. Our family thought the ceremony was the best part of the day. I guess what I am saying is when your wedding planning takes over go back to basics and really understand why you are getting married and make the ceremony mean something to both of you.

Whatever you decide to do be sure you always keep in mind why you are getting married. Be true to yourself, everyone becomes an expert when you get engaged and then try and tell you how it’s done. You do it just how you want to. Remember your wedding does not have to be a massively lavish affair with hundreds of guests and extravagant entertainment. It just has to be a mirror image of what you as a couple want and the most important thing is that you enjoy it and your guest do to.
If I can help in anyway call or email me and I will be happy to help.
Until next time, happy planning.