Archive for March, 2010

Real Weddings Story – Kelly & PJ

March 31st, 2010
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This week we have our second update on the real life wedding of Kelly & PJ . The wedding is racing closer to us! May 9th!  The Wedding Genie can’t wait to Coordinate their special day. If you remember Kelly is the breakfast producer at Heart Radio. The wedding is going to be such fun and how fantastic to be able to have the DJ’s from Heart to ensure the dance floor is packed all night.






















Perhaps you would like to catch up on the first post. click here

If you are thinking of using a wedding planner to coordinate your special day please call or email to check our availability. Perhaps you would like to know what’s involved and if it would be right for you. We are always happy to chat and we do love to hear from our readers.

Until next time, happy planning,

Fabulous Wedding Hair Styling

March 26th, 2010 No Comments
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I can’t think of a single more important thing to most brides, other than their dress, that comes before looking fabulous. Your hair is certainly your crowning glory and the way it looks on your wedding day will absolutely make you feel confident and gorgeous, which is your job as a bride by the way! This week I have the pleasure of introducing you to James White Hair. I am so excited because very soon I get to work with James at a gorgeous wedding in May. (More of that fab wedding on the blog in the coming months).

As you know, when we feature our fabulous suppliers at The Wedding Genie we always ask them for their pearls of wisdom, we are nothing if not practical. James has given us fantastic advice and you can see from his lovely images that he is really does create the most gorgeous wedding day hair styles. I asked James to tell us a bit about himself and to give us his top tips and advice.

I honed my skills in the hot house of the session world, working on photo shoots and fashion shows; fertile environments which inspire ideas and where all innovation is made. This is where I get my inspiration and ideas for hair styling and my product range.

I spend my time between the salon, bridal work and session styling with photographers and working on seminars for product companies. My passion and fresh approach to hair dressing has lead to my work being featured in the national press.

Reward for doing what I love feels like cheating. I believe hair styles should be refined and allowed to evolve. I enjoy a non compromising attention to detail to make quality. My aim is the highest standard, customer service is included and I deliver!

“Jame’s wedding hair dressing is for a sophisticated and discerning client; one who appreciates style, wants the very best there is and wants to look stunning! James is known for his artistic eye, vision and creating signature hair styles”

There is something special with having the privilege to be there on the most important day of someone’s life let alone being a part of it. I do Bridal Hair quite simply because it provides me with so much fulfilment that I can do what I love for someone else and make them feel incredible.

Bridal hair has always had an old fashion feel around it for many years and I can understand why. I hope I can change people’s perception and fears with wedding hair. While a major part of a bride’s dream wedding is a spectacular gown, a beautifully romantic hairstyle is an essential ingredient of the bridal fantasy. I believe my style is unique, I like simple, simply done. Nothing to fancy, just a timeless style that compliments you.

Advice and Key 2010 Bridal Trends

  • Today is your greatest red carpet moment. As soon as you select a date, you should begin selecting a hair-style. As you look through bridal magazines for dresses, pay attention to hairstyles and save the pages of those you like. This will help you communicate with your stylist, even if in one photo it is the style you like and in another it may the texture or veil placement. Choose a stylist that you feel comfortable with and has a style you desire. Visit them just for a blow dry to get a feeling of how they work.
  • When choosing your style you should take many things into consideration, such as weather, climate or locations, as well as the style of your dress. For example if you have naturally curly hair that tends to frizz and you’re having a summer wedding outside, choose a style that works with the humidity. If your dress has an old Hollywood flair you may want to experiment with high glamour!
  • Remember that you will look back at these memories for the rest of your life. Your wedding hair should be timeless and modern but not trendy. You should also be very comfortable with your style…..remember confidence equals beauty.
  • Now that you feel great about your hairstyle, what about those bridesmaids? A wedding is like a mini fashion show. One thing that helps fashion shows look so spectacular is that there is a common theme to all the models’ hair. For example Jessica Simpson’s wedding hair was romantic, so they chose a “wavy, romantic texture” for all of her bridesmaids, but styles them all differently to express their special uniqueness. Having this common element helps keep the look of the wedding chic and elegant.

A Romantic Look

If you’re marrying in a garden setting, a Victorian-style-gown, or you just want to capture an ultra-romantic effect, try a more unstructured hairdo.

Up-and-down

Can’t decide if you want your hair up or down? Try a little of both! Pin up the front half of the head in a simple sweep or more elaborate loops, and let the rest hang down the back.

Chic Vintage

Rocking with the vintage feel will require a beautiful and simple style. Try a highly polished chignon in the lower nape of your head or a classic bun.

French Twist

Love the Audrey Hepburn look? Try a classic French twist. Because this style works with hair in tip-top condition, start deep conditioning treatments well before the big day.

Red Carpet glam

A basic style can look very sophisticated. Simply work with a soft curl/wave through the hair. For a more glamourous look, create body with back-combing at the roots.

If you wonder how much James charges here is a peak at his prices:

Uk Fee - James a one hour complimentary trial/consultation in the salon. Further trials are charged at £30.00 per hour.
Bride From £75.00, Mother of the Bride from £35.00, Adult Bridesmaid from £40,00, Child Bridesmaid under 12yrs From £25,00.

Travel Fee – £40.00 per Hour from Nottingham. James will work in Europe too, please contact him for more information.

Makes me want to get married all over again. If you want help planning your wedding and are feeling a little overwhelmed give me a call. Our Genie for An Evening service could be just what you need.

Until next time, happy planning.

Wedding Planning for Men!

March 25th, 2010 No Comments
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Yes you did read the title correctly! and no I have not completely lost my marbles. Lately I have been visiting quite a few wedding fairs and wedding exhibitions, the one thing I noticed was that you lovely brides were accompanied by your gorgeous men. Granted, you may have only dragged them along to carry the bags and pay for the lovely sparkly things! but I got to thinking about what we as wedding planners can do to help the sometimes long suffering other halves.

I totally understand that some men are happy to take a back seat when it comes to wedding plans and be there for advice and support, but what about the ones that really want to take part? I know my husband would not have been thrilled at the prospect of a task including colours, flowers, or anything remotely girly. But he certainly was brilliant at anything practical like giving me really good advice on where to sit people at our reception, sorting out speeches, acquiring suits and transport etc. Not to mention the moral support he gave me.

Whilst I was wandering around the Wedding Show at the NEC taking in all the lovely things on offer I met Andrew Shanahan. Andrew is the founder of I am Staggered, a website for men and wedding planning! Its a first! and its packed with great advice and help all from a mans perspective. Its funny, informative and totally geared to a mans way of thinking.

I thought it would be a great idea to do a regular feature on my blog site. Every Thursday I will run their very best advice, so if you love reading our blog, now you can point your lovely man in our direction too. Its a great resource when you ask him to sort out the honeymoon or organise the suits etc, and most importantly will give him a rest from anything girly. So when he asks you what he can do to help, you can use this blog for inspiration.

Andrew has given us a little preview of what I am Staggered is all about.

“Its the leading UK’s men’s wedding website, packed full of information about stag do ideas, and mens wedding suits for the groom, best man, and father of the bride. Our aim is to give blokes all the information they need to have a successful engagement, stag-do, wedding and honeymoon. We even help make sure that you get your anniversaries sorted. Every so often there’s even a few laughs thrown in along the way.”

I am really excited about this feature and can’t wait for their weekly updates. I am looking forward to really understanding how men feel when they are thrown into the whole wedding planning process and more than that being able to pass along practical advice that is totally geared especially for them. Subscribe to my blog by entering your email address on the side bar at the top of this page, or use this feed address you don’t want to miss out!

Until next time, happy planning.


The Start of a Great Marriage

March 24th, 2010 1 Comment
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Just as the wedding planning season is about to start full pelt, I thought I would take a minute to think about what really matters when you are planning your wedding. Its the one big day in your life when you declare to the world and each other, that you want to spend your lives together. As you go through the whirlwind of wedding planning its very easy to get so bogged down with all the details and organising, that you can forget the true goal of the day, which is to promise to love and take care of each other.

The Wedding Genie’s passion is to plan and coordinate weddings but we also want to ensure that you start your married life with a good foundation for a long and happy marriage. With this in mind before you even start to think about finding the venue, dress etc have a think about the fundamentals of what you promise to vow to each other.

Check out one of the best weddings I have ever seen. Yes its fiction but it illustrates how simply it can be to get married.Yes its fantastic to have the biggest budget in the world and spend as much money as you like on that designer wedding dress or the most exclusive venue, food and wine, but at the end of the day its your promises to each other that will stand the test of time.

So if you want to get married on a shoe string it does not mean that your wedding won’t be anything less special than a wedding with the budget of a small nation. Its what you put into the day that counts. If you get caught up in the whirlwind of wedding planning and loose sight, take a minute and check back here to see what is really important.

Until next time, happy planning.

Inspirational Wedding Blog

March 19th, 2010 No Comments
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Our blog is all about being practical and giving  great advice to help brides plan a fantastic wedding day. I do have to say that I do get a bit fed up of american blogs leading the way when it comes to inspiration. Don’t get me wrong they are excellent but often its hard for brides to source the items they recommend. Once you have seen them on the site and you fall in love with them its really disappointing not to be able to access them in the UK, that goes for their suppliers too.

Today I want to introduce you to one of the great new English! blog sites, English-Wedding.com full of inspiration and advice for brides. In fact you can even find my articles on there too.

Claire Gould who runs the website popped by to tell me what the aim of her website is and a little more about it. Claire is not stranger to weddings,she runs a calligraphy company so she knows what she is talking about having been around engaged couples for the last few years. I thought it would be better if Claire explained herself.

English-Wedding.com is a new website for brides. It’s halfway between a wedding directory and a blog, with the focus of the whole site being on inspiring wedding photos for you to browse at your leisure. More than a blog, way prettier than a wedding directory, this is a website to enjoy with a cup of tea – browse a few pages and see where they take you!

Some of the best English wedding photographers have featured n the blog home page of English-Wedding.com showcasing gorgeous brides, magnificent venues and beautiful wedding details to inspire your own wedding. See inside Peckforton Castle, Hampton Manor and Crewe Hall, be amazed by a red Maggie wedding dress and a delicate Charlotte Balnier gown, or look at winter wedding pictures, summer weddings, tipis… you name it, it’s on the blog!

Once click inside the website will bring you to a collection of wedding advice articles, covering everything from starting out with wedding planning, to choosing your dress and applying your make up for the big day. Every article is submitted by a wedding expert – with wedding planners, stationers, even wedding cake designers sharing their own tips and advice to make your wedding day go smoothly.

When you are in the mood for a bit of wedding shopping you’ll find the inspiration pages of English-Wedding.com are full of lovely ideas. From inspiration boards to the Loves! page which is full of pretty accessories and ideas from English wedding suppliers, it’s just a lovely website to look at, and will help you find great new websites to buy everything from favours to flowers for your day.

The website is put together by me Claire Gould, I have worked in weddings for five years – in one of the more unusual wedding jobs, as a calligrapher! I decided to turn my creative eye to website design as a new hobby back in 2009.

I am really pleased to have been able to introduce you to this website, I hope you find great inspiration from it. Why don’t you check out Claire’s calligraphy website to see her latest work too. Wedding Genie like to work with the best suppliers who have the same high standards of customer service that we do. If you want help with sourcing suppliers why not give me a call. Even if you just want a little advice drop me a line we are always pleased to hear from you.

Until next time, happy planning.

Wedding Budgeting Tips

March 17th, 2010 3 Comments
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At the Wedding Genie we are committed to helping couples start married life with a strong foundation. We really hate it when we hear how the wedding budget escalated, and the day after the wedding couples are hit by the reality of a huge debt that is going to take months, or even years to pay off. We ran this blog last year so we thought for anyone who has recently become engaged, Congratulations! it would be very useful. We have added a few more tips to help.

To start you off here are our top tips for planning and managing the finance, how to keep track of it and ideas on how to save.

  • Where is the money coming from? – Who is paying for the wedding? - You may have savings that can be used for the wedding budget, but often most couples don’t have enough for the whole wedding. Your parents may want to contribute so now is the time to tactfully ask them. Once you announce your engagement I am sure they will have started to think about how you will finance the wedding, so this conversation won’t be a surprise to them. If they are worried about how much they want to give, you can suggest they pay for certain items perhaps the photography, the dress or the cake. It is sometimes better to get them to contribute to these areas rather than the reception, that way you will have more control over the guest list and food etc.
  • Open a separate Bank Account - This way you can identify exactly how much cash you have at anytime. Keeping it separate from your normal household account will encourage you not to spend it. At the moment the interest rates are very low and there is not a great return on your savings, but there are some deals around to entice you with short-term bonuses that offer a good rate of interest. Always check how long these special deals run so you can move your account when they are over.  Perhaps if you are getting married in the next twelve to eighteen months it may well be worth taking out an ISA. This is a savings account where the interest on your savings is tax free. The allowance is £3,600 cash per year each. It can go up to £7,200 if you have stocks and shares. Take a look at The Money Saving Expert for the best deals and tips on saving. There is also a great budget calculator that Saffron Building Society have set up to help work out what you spend. It then calculates automatically what you left, therefore how much you can save each month. Their Wedding Saver Account is guaranteed to be in the best 10 available in the online market.
  • Save Regularly Each Month - Set up a standing order so you know for sure the money is going into your savings each month. It will really help when you see your money start to grow. Work out what you can save comfortably, that way you will be more inclined to leave it in the bank, and not spend it because you have left yourselves too short.
  • Cutting down on some everyday spending can boost your savings – For instance buying coffee everyday really adds up. A latte can cost around £1.80 and if you buy three a week thats £5.40, over a month its £21.60 and over a year its a whopping £259.20. You can take your own lunch to work to cut down costs, and if you go out for dinner a couple of times a month, cut this down to once.
  • Wedding Magazines – These are quite addictive and very expensive, if you want to splurge, choose your favourite and not two or three different types. Your friends may have just got married and they may have some to loan you.
  • Set up a Spreadsheet to keep track – If you are computer savvy set up a simple spreadsheet split up into all the areas of cost such as, photography, cake, dress, reception, stationery etc. Apply the amount you want to spend against each item, total everything so you can see what the budget is. If you do not use a computer do the same in a notebook. Keep all of your receipts so you know exactly what you have spent, and keep an eye on when payments are due. Don’t forget you won’t have to pay for everything all at once so you will have time to save. A deposit is generally needed in the early days to secure a supplier, then payments are split according to time frames set out by the terms and conditions of your suppliers.
  • List and Stick to your priorities - If you read our blog regularly you know we talk about setting your priorities and writing them down. Keep them with you. When you want to start spending get them out and look at what they are then compare them to what you are about to buy. Do you really need the item and is it a priority?

These are just a few ways of tackling your budget. We cannot stress highly enough the importance of working out your budget and most of all writing it down. In the cold light of day the figures you have been thinking of may add up to much more than you thought.

For more information on budgeting read our tips and advice or call us to see if we can help with our budgeting service. A new pair of eyes is often all it needs to look at your budget from a different perspective. I guarantee we can find ways of helping you save money and perhaps moving funds around so that photographer you really wanted is affordable.

If you have any ideas for saving or tips let us know and we will post them on our blog.

Until next time, happy planning.


Wedding Day Details – Involving Your Guests

March 12th, 2010 No Comments
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This week we have been running our top tips and ideas to help make your wedding day personal and special. It been all about involving your guests. Here are a few more ideas to inspire you.

  • If you are having favours on the tables why not make them yourself if you have time. Perhaps little handmade sweets. Miniature jars of jam or cookies. Edible favours are probably the best value as your guests will usually eat them then and there and not leave them behind at the end of the evening. Wrap them in cellophane tied with ribbon to match your them and label them with a personal message thanking your guests for coming. You can write the guests names on one side and the message on the other. That way you can save on place cards.
  • Think about displaying a story of your relationship using pictures of you and your fiance. Why not ask your friends to send you a picture if they have one, of you and them. Its a great way to involve your guests  and a great talking point. You can get them printed very cheaply and hang them up with miniature pegs on ribbon. Perhaps put them in an area of your reception where its a bit quieter and your guests can browse the pictures and chat whilst you are having yor photographs taken.
  • Another option is to make a powerpoint presentation of your pictures and have it running whilst you are having your photographs taken. Its easy and cheap to do and is quite a talking point.
  • Guest books are a great way of involving your guests but why not do something a bit different. Have little cards like luggage type labels that your guests can write on and perhaps hang on a wishing tree. After you can collect them up and put them in an album.

  • A lovely idea I found the other day from a lovely bride in the Feb/March edition of Wedding was they asked their guests to create a lasting memory of their day.  Postcards were pegged onto a clothes line and numbered to correspond to a month of the year. Every guest took one home with them, wrote their memory of the day on the back and then sent them back in the relevant month. How lovely to receive these over the coming months.
  • Personalise table names, your guests will really appreciate the little details. Perhaps use the places that you travelled, your favourite films, flowers you love. I am quite a shopaholic so our tables were named after shops I loved. My friends loved sitting on tables called Fortnum & Mason, Selfridges etc.
  • If you can afford it I know its a splurge but why not instead of favours hire a Silhouettest. Its really unusual, your guests get a cut out of them in paper mounted on card to take home. If you employ one of these guys they even do a full length one of the bride and groom too.

I hope you have enjoyed our series this week. Please send us your suggestions and we can post them. If you would like me to help with inspiration for your wedding day why not call or email me to see how we can help.

Wedding Day Details – Involving your Guests

March 11th, 2010 No Comments
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Today’s blog is filled with more inspiration and great ideas to help involve your guests in your wedding day. We guarantee spending a bit of time and effort on this will really help your day be memorable.

  • If any of your guests are creative they may like to help with your stationery, or make your cake. Its lovely when your guests have had that very personal input into your day. Its a great way of giving you a wedding present too, and you  save on your budget.
  • To capture the essence and fun of the day use a Polaroid instamatic camera. Ask the best man and ushers to go round and invite your guests to take pictures of themselves during the wedding. You will find there are some very inventive ways that your guests will show you how much fun they are having. I know we used one at our wedding and my wedding party went and sat on all the instruments that were set up for the evening band which looked hilarious. Bridesmaids playing the drums!. We were so touched by the messages and thoughts behind the pictures. Instant Forever do packages for this that include the camera and guest book. A tip from the top is to source the camera from Ebay, you can always sell it again after the wedding.
  • You can also put cameras on the tables for your guests to use. Collect them up at the end of the day and see what you get. Another alternative is to leave CD’s on the tables for your guests so that they can download their pictures and send them to you.
  • Have a basket of props, such as false moustaches, noses and funny glasses. Perhaps an empty picture frame that your guests can spend some time dressing up and taking quirky pictures. You can make signs which are really effective too. Take a look at these ideas from Rock My Wedding.

Rock My Wedding

  • Out of Town Bags/Welcome Bags are a great idea to make your guests feel welcome. If you are making a weekend of it and many of your guests are staying in the hotel you can ask the hotel to place them in everyone’s rooms. At our wedding we filled them with little chocolates, small miniatures bottles of sparkling wine for ladies, red wine for the men, Candles, matches, tissues and handmade bath bombs. We also left a little note welcoming everyone and thanking them for coming. It did not cost a fortune. You can source really good quality items from Ebay, it just took some time and effort.

Steve Gerrard Photography

Hope you enjoyed these little pointers there’s more tomorrow. Don’t forget why not send me your ideas for involving your guests into your special day. Call or email me, we really do love to hear from you.

Until tomorrow, happy planning.

Wedding Day Details – Involving your Guests

March 10th, 2010 No Comments
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I just love it when I hear friends and family at weddings say how special the day was and how they felt involved. I know I wanted everyone at my wedding to go home and smile whenever they thought of our day. It was important to me to know that my friends and family really felt part of the wedding. Its true that the people you invite to your wedding really do make the day special for you and your new husband. Who wants guests sitting around bored and wondering what is going to happen next? Spending a little time and effort in involving your guests in your special day will pay off dividends. Everyone will go home talking about the best wedding they have been to and your wedding pictures will be full of happy smiling people.

Over the last few months I have seen and thought of some great ideas to help you create a wedding day that everyone will remember. Over the next few days my blog will be jam packed with them.

  • First of all give enough notice to the people you really want to come to your wedding. Especially if its in the height of the holiday season. Send out Save The Date Cards. They will also set the tone of your wedding day so think about how they look and what they portray. One of my lovely clients sent out a fabulous picture of her and her fiance and little boy wearing false noses and fake moustaches. Straight away it said to me wow what a fun day this is going to be. It really showed their personality and I bet everyone they sent them to smiled when they opened them.
  • When you send out the Invitations to your wedding why not ask your guests to send back a favourite song they would like to be played at the wedding. If you are using an Ipod for your disco you can personalise the music so everyone gets to dance to something they like. If you are having a live band then you can give the list to them to work into their session.

  • Another idea I like is when you send out invites ask your guests to write down why they think you two are perfect together. At the wedding whilst everyone is seated you can pop these in a little box on each table and your guests can read them out and try and guess who wrote each comment. Its a great way of introducing guests to each other too.You can even ask your best man to read a few out and give out a bottle of wine or champagne for the guest that guesses the correct person.
  • Its always good to have an order of service booklet to hand out. This should include the running order of the day. This will help with lots of things, one is, being sure that your guests know when they are going to eat. Long periods of time sipping drinks, especially when its hot, with no food, does not make for the best reception if everyone is more than a little tipsy. Also it’s nice to write a thank you to everyone. Identify your wedding party too so that guests who have never met before at least know the names of your Best Man, Mum, Dad and Bridesmaids etc. If your wedding is in one of those lovely old stately homes or quirky venue, its a really nice idea to explain its origin and give a bit of history. Orders of service don’t have to be expensive. Confetti do great templates you can download and personalise yourselves. It does take a bit of time and effort but your guests will love it. Its also a great memento of your day for everyone to take home and keep.

  • Ask your closest friends or member of your family to do a poem or reading at your ceremony. Civil services are the perfect medium to personalise your ceremony. As long as the readings are not religious its fine. If you trust the person you have asked to read you can always let them choose so its a lovely surprise for you and your new husband.
  • If there are children at the wedding who are that bit older why not ask them give out your order of service booklets along with confetti perhaps to each couple. That way they will feel responsible for something and have something to keep them occupied. They will feel really important and part of the wedding.

I will have plenty more tips and advice over the next couple of days so pop back for a little inspiration. In the meantime, I know that our Brides who we work with, and definitely many more have the most fabulous ideas, why not send them to me and I will publish them and credit them to you. Lets have some fun and help spread the inspiration!! Email me or call me I love hearing from you.

Until Tomorrow, happy planning.

Wedding Poems and Quotes – Words To Inspire

March 5th, 2010 No Comments
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This months lovely words really touched me. I think its so beautiful if you can personalise your civil ceremony with your own choice of readings or poems that will stay with you forever.

It’s you I like,
It’s not the things you wear, it’s not the way you do your hair–
But it’s you I like

The way you are right now, the way down deep inside you–
Not the things that hide you, not your toys–
They’re just beside you.

But it’s you I like–
Every part of you, your skin, your eyes, your feelings
Whether old or new.

I hope that you’ll remember, even when you’re feeling blue
That it’s you I like, it’s you yourself, it’s you,
It’s you I like.

A Song By Mr Roger’s

 

I also came across these most lovely words below, whilst I was researching for this blog, Style Me Pretty. It was said by a lovely couple. They had corresponded when they first met and this is what he wrote to her when they became engaged.

“Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice, but falling in love with you was beyond my control.”

That bought a tear to my eye and made me smile all day. Take the time to think of the special things you have said to each other and see if you can’t use them in your ceremony. If you have any lovely readings and poems please pass them on to me and I will publish them on the blog. Call or email I am always thrilled to hear from you.

Until next time, happy planning.